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UChris Packham uveza uxwebhu olutsha lwe-Asperger's kunye nam ngale Lwesibini nge-17 kweyeDwarha ngentsimbi yesithoba kwi-BBC2. Apha, iqabane lakhe uCharlotte Corney ucacisa into athanda ukuhlala nayo- nendlela i-autism yakhe ebuchaphazela ngayo ubudlelwane babo
Isibhengezo
Mna noChris sadibana ngobuchule xa wayetyelele umyezo wezilwanyana endandiwubaleka kwi-Isle of Wight. Undixelela ngoku ukuba wayendazi ngalamini ukuba ndim. Andizange ndiyazi le nto, kwaye ngelo xesha ndandinomlingane wam wangaphambili.
Ke ngo-2007 uChris wenza ilizwi kwilizwi elafotwa kumyezo wezilwanyana. Wenze umzamo omkhulu ukuza kuphehlelelo lwefilimu ukuze akwazi ukudibana nam kwakhona. Iindlela zakhe zika-Asperger akakwazi ukudlala ngothando, ngoko ke kwakungekho nanye imiqondiso yesiqhelo yokuthatha. Kwiintsuku ezimbalwa kamva, sasenzelwe ukuya kwisidlo sangokuhlwa, kodwa endaweni yoko sathetha ubusuku bonke, kwaye saqhagamshela kuwo onke amanqanaba. Ndiyazi ukuba umhlaba wam wonke ukuloo mntu.
Kungekudala emva komgca, ndacinga indlela eyothusayo ngayo ukuba lo mfo wayenomdla kakhulu kum wayengakwazi ukundijonga. Njengoko ulwalamano lwethu lwaluqhubeka, ndaqaphela ukuba wayengasoloko ebonakala ngathi akakhathali ngendlela endiziva ngayo. Ukunyaniseka kwakhe ngamanye amaxesha kwandikhathaza. Isengandenza ndiphazamiseke, kwaye ndisenokwenza impazamo yokulinganisa oku nokuba ukhathale kangakanani. Kodwa yinxalenye ye-Asperger.
Kwaku malunga neminyaka emihlanu ngaphambi kokuba andixelele ukuba une-autism, kwaye oko kungenxa yokuba ndabuza. Ndandijijile kwisimo sokuzinikela kwakhe ngokupheleleyo kum kunye nokusilela kwakhe kwemihla ngemihla. Kwakungathi andazi ukuba ndihamba nabani. UAsperger weza njengempendulo, ndathi xa ndiyibeka kuChris ndacinga ukuba angothuka. Kunoko, wavuma ngokuthe ngcembe. Wayengandixelelanga kuba wayecinga ukuba unabo ubuchule bokuyifihla.
Kundincedile ukuba nobudlelwane obumangalisayo notata wam, owafa kwiminyaka emihlanu ngaphambi kokuba ndidibane noChris, kwaye wayefana naye kakhulu. Utata wam wayeyinto yonke ngaphandle kwesiqhelo - indoda ethandekayo, ene-kaleidoscopic, enemibala… kwaye inzima ngokungaqhelekanga. Akazange afunyaniswe enalo naluphi na uhlobo lwe-autism, kodwa kukho ukufana.
Mna noChris sithethe ngendlela azakuziva ngayo xa uScratchy esweleka. Ndichukumisekile yindlela asinde ngayo ekufeni kuka-Itchy. Kwakungonakalisi kangako kunokuba ndandisoyika. Wahlangabezana ngokugalela yonke into kwi-Scratchy. Kodwa akasayi kuba nanto iseleyo ukuba ayithande xa uScratchy esiya.
Andiluthelekisi uthando lwakhe lweScratchy nothando lwakhe ngam. Ndiqinisekile ngothando lwakhe. Sisebenzela ukuhlala kunye. Ndiyamthanda ngokwasemzimbeni kunaye, kodwa kulungile. Ngamanye amaxesha ndicinga ukuba kungakuhle ukuba nomntu oqheleke ngakumbi - angabonakala engaqhelekanga kangangokuba angaphaya kwasemhlabeni- kodwa ndiyazi ukuba andinakuhlala nayo. Akaze andiphoxe. Umbono kaChris ngobomi utyebile, kwaye uhlekisa kabuhlungu. Undenza ndihleke njengomnye umntu. Ndiyazi ukuba andisoze ndidikwe.
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