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Ngo-2016, eneminyaka engama-37 ubudala, kwaye emva kweminyaka esibhozo esebenza njengombhali wabasebenzi kwi-Observer - ngaphandle kokunyuselwa okanye ukunyuswa kwentlawulo - wayeka kwaye waya ezimele. Olo tshintsho lumangalisayo lomsebenzi lungqamana notshintsho lwenyikima kubomi bakhe bobuqu: bendiqhawula umtshato kwaye ekugqibeleni andiphumelelanga kunyango lokuzala, undixelela ngokuphandle. Emva koko ndangena kobunye ubudlelwane obuphela kwiiveki ezintathu ngaphambi kokuzalwa kwam 39th. Mna ngokwam ndaziva ndisilele. Ndandijonge phantsi umgqomo wam we-40s, kungekhona apho ndandicinga ukuba ndiya kuba. Ndaziva ndixhelekile.
Ukuba ukhe watyhubela intliziyo, uya kwazi ukuba awukwazi ukumamela umculo ngokwenene kuba ukwenza uzive ngathi uyinkwenkwezi ye-movie yakho ye-indie ephazamisayo. Ndiye ndaqala ukumamela iipodcasts kwaye ndaqonda ukuba yayiyindawo emangalisayo yokuncokola. Ngenxa yokuba ndandiziva ndisilele, ndandifuna ukubuza abantu ngexesha abaye baziva ngathi basilela ngalo, yintoni ukusilela ababafundisa yona, nendlela abaye bahlangabezana ngayo noko.
NgoJulayi ka-2018, uSuku wathengisa ilokhwe yakhe yomtshato, waqesha umvelisi ovakalayo, wafumana inkxaso-mali evela kuhlobo lwendlu (imali yayincinci, kodwa ininzi kakhulu) kwaye wayila ilogo yakhe enamacebiso. Yayisisiqalo eso seNjani yokusilela, i-podcast ephezulu kwitshathi eqokelele ezo zizigidi zikhutshelweyo, iye yaqhuba imiboniso ethengiswayo kwaye isingathe izinto ezithandwa nguPhoebe Waller-Bridge kunye noGreta Thunberg njengeendwendwe.
I-podcast sesinye sezipho ezikhulu endizinikwe ngubomi, kuba ndiziva ndamkelekile njengoko ndinjalo. Kangangexesha elide lobomi bam, ndandizama ukuzenza ngcono kunokuba ndandinjalo. Kwi-Observer bendizama ukubonwa njengomntu onzulu, ophakamileyo, okrelekrele kunokuba ndiziva. Kubudlelwane, bendizama ukusebenzela ukuba omnye umntu ufuna ndibe yintoni, emva koko ndizame ukuba yinguqulelo engcono yaloo nto. NgeNdlela yoFail, yonke loo nto yahamba kwaye ndakwazi ukuba ndim. Abantu babethanda xa ndisabelana ngento yokuba semngciphekweni kwam. Oko kwakukhulula.
Ukuthetha noSuku, kunzima ukucinga ukuba uyinto enye ngaphandle kokuphumelela. Uyathetha, iimpendulo zakhe zenziwe kakuhle kwaye zicingisiswe kakuhle, uyathandeka kwangoko. Ayimangalisi into yokuba enze ukuphulaphula okusondeleyo, okunyanisekileyo, okumenze wakhumbula, Indlela yokusilela: Yonke into endakha ndayifunda kwizinto ezingahambi kakuhle, umthengisi ogqwesileyo.
I-Podcasting ecaleni, uSuku ngumbhali osekiweyo, oneenoveli ezintlanu kunye neencwadi ezine ezingezizo ezenyani egameni lakhe. I-Freendaholic ikhetha umlutha woSuku kubuhlobo ngelixa ijonge kwimbali yentlalo yoluntu kwaye izama ukunika olu lwalamano lunzima kodwa lubalulekile ebomini bethu ulwimi.
Ubuhlobo yinto endiyithandayo ebomini bam, utsho. Luthando lwam lweplatonic olundibonele kokuninzi; ibiyinkxaso engaguqukiyo kubomi bam bonke. Ndaqalisa ukucinga ngendlela esiluphakamisa ngayo uthando lothando kakhulu kuluntu lwethu kodwa asihoyi kakhulu ubuhlobo, nangona sisazi ukuba kubalulekile.
Umbono wale ncwadi wenzeka ngoSuku ngexesha lo bhubhani, ixesha apho abaninzi babephonononga ubudlelwane kubomi babo. Iidayari zethu ziye zaphela ngobusuku kwaye sasikhumbula abantu abathile kungekhona abanye. Ndaye ndaqaphela ukuba ngaphambi kokuba kutshixeke, ndichithe ixesha elininzi ndisithi ewe kubantu ababuzayo, kangangokuba khange ndichithe ixesha laneleyo neqela lam labahlobo abangazange babeke iimfuno ngexesha lam. Yaqala apho ke le ncwadi.
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